Trope OR Trope Meme
Apr. 30th, 2020 09:27 amWelcome to five fandom 5+1s and a meme! This is a series of posts about stuff that’s important to my own personal fandom history. I wanted some space to talk about happy and whimsical stuff and explore the different ways I’ve experienced fandom over time. I thought it would be fun to borrow the popular fanfic structure of 5+1 things. I’m using the word fandom very broadly here, to include SFF book fandom, transformative fandom, and just liking things. The things I’ve picked to talk about might not be the best or my favorites but they are fundamental to my experience and have shaped my thinking.
This the final post of this series, and that means it's time for a meme! I’ve been seeing this meme around for a while now, but have hesitated to do it because I’m fairly new to fic and I’m still gettng the hang of which of these tropes I’m seeing when I read.-.. But it looked like so much fun, and so when I needed a meme for this project, I couldn’t resist!
Slow burn OR love at first sight -- Slow burn! One thing I really enjoy in romances is the characters coming to know each other as people. It's a great way for the reader to also learn about them, and just enjoy the ride of watching the relationship form. Besides, love at first sight just seems very unrealistic to me.
Fake dating OR secret dating -- I don’t think I’ve read any secret dating, so I guess fake dating, which is often fun but sometimes feels a bit contrived.
Enemies to lovers OR best friends to lovers -- I really enjoy the kind of enemies to lovers where neither character is in the wrong but they have reasonable reasons to dislike each other and over the course of the story they slowly learn to see past that and fall in love. I just find romances that are about learning to see the other person more fully super satisfying. I do enjoy friends to lovers as well, but it starts from a point where the characters already know each other, so even though friends to lovers seems ideal for non-fictional relationship, when I’m reading, I definitely prefer enemies to lovers.
Oh no, there's only one bed OR long distance with correspondence Definitely long distance with correspondence. There’s only one bed isn’t a trope that I have strong feelings about one way or another, but I love epistolary fiction, fanfic or otherwise. I really enjoy the characters with a distinct narrative voice, and letter writing is one way of achieving that. Plus epistolary stories can play with narrative distance in interesting ways. No all long distance correspondence stories are epistolary but they do tend to at least feature snippets of the correspondence.
Fantasy AU OR modern AU I don’t have strong feelings about this one. I generally am more interested in fantasy than in contemporary fiction but I haven’t really read very many fansty AUs and I’ve read a lot of modern AUs, which might just be because I tend to start from canons with magical elements. Also these two don’t have to be mutually exclusive! I quite enjoy modern with magic AUs!
Smut OR fluff Oh, fluff definitely. I like smut sometimes but I need to be in the right state of mind for it. On the other hand I'm a voracious reader of fluff.
Mutual pining OR domestic bliss I think both of these are fine in moderation. Mutual pining can reach a point where I just want to yell, “Communicate, dammit!” at the piners, but as long as it doesn’t get too stretched out, I enjoy a mutual pining story. Domestic bliss is also good in small to moderate doses, but eventually I tend to want something else to happen.
Alternate universe OR future fic I enjoy both of these and don’t really have preference here.
One shot OR multi-chapter -I’ve had to stop reading WIPs. I enjoyed reading them at first but after a while I just couldn’t keep track of multiple stories that didn’t update very often. So now I just wait for things to be complete. The best fic length for me is novella length, 20-40k- it’s long enough to sink my teeth into, but short enough that I don’t feel overwhelmed by how long it is. I don’t really care if those words are in chapters or one shots, because I’m going to read them all at once anyway.
Kid fic OR road trip fic -- So I have complicated feelings about kid fic. I read it sometimes and enjoy it, kidfic is often fun and cute. But I want things that this trope doesn’t deliver. I want stories that resonate with my experience of being a parent, the cute fun things yes, but also the gross things, the dull things, the frustrating things, andI rarely see those in stories. Also, while I I want stories about moms, because let's face it in our society parenting is really a very gendered experience, almost all of the kid fic that I’ve read has been about dads, which is partially because fandom can be very m/m centric and partially because I haven’t made a huge effort to get outside m/m focused spaces. While I have read some great fic about moms, most of that isn’t what I’d call kid fic. In the end, kid fic as a trope tends be be a bit frustrating to me because it is very close to some things that I want to see more of in fiction but it doesn’t end up actually being those things.
I haven’t read a lot of road trip fic, I do tend to enjoy travel stories in fiction. It’s a good reason for forced proximity, and it generally involves getting to see more parts of the world which I enjoy. So, Given my complicated feelings about kidfic, I guess I’m going with road trip fic!
Reincarnation OR character death -- I don’t really like either of these. Characters dying is just very upsetting. And I find reincarnation where the characters remember their past lives, especially as children creepy. However I really don’t want my faves to die and stay dead so I’m going with reincarnation.
Arranged marriage OR accidental marriage I had to think about this one for a bit but the evidence suggests arranged marriage, since I’ve read far more of that. I’m not sure what about arranged marriage is appealing to me. Maybe it's that these stories are more likely to engage with the wider political context?
Time travel OR isolated together I enjoy time travel generally, I like time paradoxes, and stories where time travel is twisting your brain around strange loops and you have to pluze through. But most time travel fic I’ve come across isn’t like that. The most common thing I’ve seen is time travel fix its where someone from the end of the story goes back to an earlier point in the story and fixes everything. I just don’t find “How would I change things I if knew what was going to happen?” to be very compelling question, especially since a lot of these stories aren’t interested in time travel paradoxes. On the other hand I feel pretty neutral about isolated together, so I’m going to pick time travel since I like it some of the time.
Neighbors OR roommates These seem very similar. I guess neighbors because then each character has a home that can be described and I enjoy when people use descriptions of someone’s physical space to illustrate their character.
Sci-fi AU OR magic AU Another one I don’t have strong feelings about. I enjoy both!
Bodyswap OR genderbend So I have complicated feelings about genderbending and specifically “Always a different gender” AUs. I know they’re frequently used to increase the number of female characters, and I very much support having more female characters, but reading them is super confusing for me, because I tend to feel that if those characters had always been a different gender, then they would be very different people, and I haven’t read any genderbending stories that really explore that, though I know there are some out there.
Bodyswap is something that I think would be super awkward if it happened for real, but I don’t have strong feelings about it in fic.
Angst OR crack Hmm.. so I’m not someone who enjoys angst for the sake of it, or stories where the angst is unrelenting, but a bit of angst can be a very good story ingredient. My understanding of “crack” is that it means so kind of over the top very silly premise, though I’m still a bit vague on what exactly it is. Despite my lack of experience with crack, I do tend to enjoy over the top silliness. And I also enjoy crack treated seriously, when things that should be unbelievable somehow really work. So, after consideration, crack.
Apocalyptic OR mundane I don’t love mundane things, but really dislike apocalyptic things so mundane.
And that’s the end of Five Fandom 5+1s and a Meme! Thanks for reading along, and thanks to Anna K. for helping me brainstorm for this series and editing these posts!
This the final post of this series, and that means it's time for a meme! I’ve been seeing this meme around for a while now, but have hesitated to do it because I’m fairly new to fic and I’m still gettng the hang of which of these tropes I’m seeing when I read.-.. But it looked like so much fun, and so when I needed a meme for this project, I couldn’t resist!
Slow burn OR love at first sight -- Slow burn! One thing I really enjoy in romances is the characters coming to know each other as people. It's a great way for the reader to also learn about them, and just enjoy the ride of watching the relationship form. Besides, love at first sight just seems very unrealistic to me.
Fake dating OR secret dating -- I don’t think I’ve read any secret dating, so I guess fake dating, which is often fun but sometimes feels a bit contrived.
Enemies to lovers OR best friends to lovers -- I really enjoy the kind of enemies to lovers where neither character is in the wrong but they have reasonable reasons to dislike each other and over the course of the story they slowly learn to see past that and fall in love. I just find romances that are about learning to see the other person more fully super satisfying. I do enjoy friends to lovers as well, but it starts from a point where the characters already know each other, so even though friends to lovers seems ideal for non-fictional relationship, when I’m reading, I definitely prefer enemies to lovers.
Oh no, there's only one bed OR long distance with correspondence Definitely long distance with correspondence. There’s only one bed isn’t a trope that I have strong feelings about one way or another, but I love epistolary fiction, fanfic or otherwise. I really enjoy the characters with a distinct narrative voice, and letter writing is one way of achieving that. Plus epistolary stories can play with narrative distance in interesting ways. No all long distance correspondence stories are epistolary but they do tend to at least feature snippets of the correspondence.
Fantasy AU OR modern AU I don’t have strong feelings about this one. I generally am more interested in fantasy than in contemporary fiction but I haven’t really read very many fansty AUs and I’ve read a lot of modern AUs, which might just be because I tend to start from canons with magical elements. Also these two don’t have to be mutually exclusive! I quite enjoy modern with magic AUs!
Smut OR fluff Oh, fluff definitely. I like smut sometimes but I need to be in the right state of mind for it. On the other hand I'm a voracious reader of fluff.
Mutual pining OR domestic bliss I think both of these are fine in moderation. Mutual pining can reach a point where I just want to yell, “Communicate, dammit!” at the piners, but as long as it doesn’t get too stretched out, I enjoy a mutual pining story. Domestic bliss is also good in small to moderate doses, but eventually I tend to want something else to happen.
Alternate universe OR future fic I enjoy both of these and don’t really have preference here.
One shot OR multi-chapter -I’ve had to stop reading WIPs. I enjoyed reading them at first but after a while I just couldn’t keep track of multiple stories that didn’t update very often. So now I just wait for things to be complete. The best fic length for me is novella length, 20-40k- it’s long enough to sink my teeth into, but short enough that I don’t feel overwhelmed by how long it is. I don’t really care if those words are in chapters or one shots, because I’m going to read them all at once anyway.
Kid fic OR road trip fic -- So I have complicated feelings about kid fic. I read it sometimes and enjoy it, kidfic is often fun and cute. But I want things that this trope doesn’t deliver. I want stories that resonate with my experience of being a parent, the cute fun things yes, but also the gross things, the dull things, the frustrating things, andI rarely see those in stories. Also, while I I want stories about moms, because let's face it in our society parenting is really a very gendered experience, almost all of the kid fic that I’ve read has been about dads, which is partially because fandom can be very m/m centric and partially because I haven’t made a huge effort to get outside m/m focused spaces. While I have read some great fic about moms, most of that isn’t what I’d call kid fic. In the end, kid fic as a trope tends be be a bit frustrating to me because it is very close to some things that I want to see more of in fiction but it doesn’t end up actually being those things.
I haven’t read a lot of road trip fic, I do tend to enjoy travel stories in fiction. It’s a good reason for forced proximity, and it generally involves getting to see more parts of the world which I enjoy. So, Given my complicated feelings about kidfic, I guess I’m going with road trip fic!
Reincarnation OR character death -- I don’t really like either of these. Characters dying is just very upsetting. And I find reincarnation where the characters remember their past lives, especially as children creepy. However I really don’t want my faves to die and stay dead so I’m going with reincarnation.
Arranged marriage OR accidental marriage I had to think about this one for a bit but the evidence suggests arranged marriage, since I’ve read far more of that. I’m not sure what about arranged marriage is appealing to me. Maybe it's that these stories are more likely to engage with the wider political context?
Time travel OR isolated together I enjoy time travel generally, I like time paradoxes, and stories where time travel is twisting your brain around strange loops and you have to pluze through. But most time travel fic I’ve come across isn’t like that. The most common thing I’ve seen is time travel fix its where someone from the end of the story goes back to an earlier point in the story and fixes everything. I just don’t find “How would I change things I if knew what was going to happen?” to be very compelling question, especially since a lot of these stories aren’t interested in time travel paradoxes. On the other hand I feel pretty neutral about isolated together, so I’m going to pick time travel since I like it some of the time.
Neighbors OR roommates These seem very similar. I guess neighbors because then each character has a home that can be described and I enjoy when people use descriptions of someone’s physical space to illustrate their character.
Sci-fi AU OR magic AU Another one I don’t have strong feelings about. I enjoy both!
Bodyswap OR genderbend So I have complicated feelings about genderbending and specifically “Always a different gender” AUs. I know they’re frequently used to increase the number of female characters, and I very much support having more female characters, but reading them is super confusing for me, because I tend to feel that if those characters had always been a different gender, then they would be very different people, and I haven’t read any genderbending stories that really explore that, though I know there are some out there.
Bodyswap is something that I think would be super awkward if it happened for real, but I don’t have strong feelings about it in fic.
Angst OR crack Hmm.. so I’m not someone who enjoys angst for the sake of it, or stories where the angst is unrelenting, but a bit of angst can be a very good story ingredient. My understanding of “crack” is that it means so kind of over the top very silly premise, though I’m still a bit vague on what exactly it is. Despite my lack of experience with crack, I do tend to enjoy over the top silliness. And I also enjoy crack treated seriously, when things that should be unbelievable somehow really work. So, after consideration, crack.
Apocalyptic OR mundane I don’t love mundane things, but really dislike apocalyptic things so mundane.
And that’s the end of Five Fandom 5+1s and a Meme! Thanks for reading along, and thanks to Anna K. for helping me brainstorm for this series and editing these posts!