2026 Disneyland Trip #5 (1/23/26)
Jan. 23rd, 2026 10:46 pm( Read more... )



Dr rdrz may imagine the noises I made when reading this (we get the London Standard free from our newspaper deliver people): Make America Hard Again: is there an erectile dysfunction epidemic?, particularly when I came to '“There have been huge uncertainties about male virility since the rise of feminism,” says Grossman.' and started screaming 'THROUGHOUT THE WHOLE OF HISTORY!!!!'
Okay, there are some very creepy blokes there.
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Creepy but in a different way: I was being 'recommended' this on Kobo, Y O Y???? The Voyage Out: A Quick Read edition:
Discover a new way to read classics with Quick Read.
This Quick Read edition includes both the full text and a summary for each chapter.
- Reading time of the complete text: about 13 hours
- Reading time of the summarized text: 20 minutes
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I'm sorry, but I couldn't help flashing on to the famous phrase 'Normal for Norfolk' when reading this: Archive reveals hidden stories of Queer Norfolk:
Norfolk: That's a queer ol' place
In the depths of the Norwich Millennium Library, there’s an archive dedicated to Norfolk’s LGBTQIA+ history
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This is rather fascinating: Flap Anatomies and Victorian Veils: Penetrating the Female Reproductive Interior:
Lifting flaps that unveiled the female reproductive body for medical purposes could just as easily be interpreted as a pornographic act imbued with sexual titillation and voyeurism. The ‘obstetrical flap’ was thus understood and used as both a teaching prop and an obscene tool. It functioned as a ‘veil’ of Victorian modesty in the name of new and penetrating obstetrical knowledge and a ‘veil’ of man's apparently underlying and untamable penetrative sexual impulses.
One has rather worried about this, and it appears that there are grounds for concern: ‘That belongs in a museum’: The true ‘cost’ of detecting in England and Wales.:
My previous work has discussed various aspects of the hobby of detecting: how the context of archaeological finds is often lost, how private ownership of finds is reducing the archaeological dataset, how our obsession with monetary worth may be fueling an increase in artefact theft and, more recently, the hidden and unacknowledged costs of the hobby of detecting to the wider British public.
I Am Not a Carbon Copy of Another Parent
I am not a carbon copy of another parent
Using the model
But finding my own way
Needs must be met
But rules are not fixed
Mistakes can be OK
I am not another person
Things won't always work
Parenting through trial and error
I can trust my judgement
I can find my way
I can see on his face that I manage OK
Don't Punish Yourself
Don't punish yourself. Things like TV can be helpful. Sometimes you just need a break.
As a parent you have the responsibility and you are a guide, but you are not in complete control. Things like TV can be enticing for kids, but as with anything after a while they lose interest, get bored and look for other entertainment.
Boundaries are necessary, but negotiable. I hard "no" can just make things more appealing. Sometimes you have to trust that kids have some judgement of their own. They need guidance to develop it, but this cannot happen if they are not allowed to try.
If you set yourself up to mould your child into a perfect idea you have, you will be disappointed. They may be only developing and need help and guidance, but they also are their own person.
You can influence their values, but you cannot force them on them.


It occurs to Ilya that he doesn't belong here. But then, this is a necessary migration.
So, at long last, I finally have an email address associated with My New Academic Position (this has been A Saga to do with their system upgrade).
I have also achieved reader's card for library of former workplace (spat out from the bowels of their system with A Very Old Photo of Yrs Truly).
And went and looked at the items I wanted to check, and found that lo, I was right and they did NOT have anything pertinent, as I had in fact hoped they would not. Though I had hoped to look, for another thing, at a couple of closed stack items and discovered that these cannot be ordered on a day's notice INFAMY I am sure I recall the times when there were regular deliveries throughout the day. Not actually critical, but irksome. (Also irksome was that I moaned about this on bluesky and got various responses that had no relevance at all to research libraries, in the UK, in particular this one.)
I then managed to get a digital passport photo at one of the photobooths on Euston station and have applied for a new passport, as mine is well out of date and I seem to keep seeing things that want 'government ID' to verify WHO I AM (over here, making like Hemingway....) so thought this was probably the way to go.
Also this is a trivial thing but in the course of my perambs of the day I walked past the statue of Trim, and his human.
In the niggles department, I did that thing of putting my phone down in place I never usually put it and flapping about trying to find it.
The lockers at the library have really annoying electronic locks.
Printer playing up a bit again. Though I think this really is that one has to let it mutter and sulk for a bit between turning it on and actually trying to print anything.


I drew this when i started playing mass effect a little while back, but I just sorta dug it up and realized I hadn't posted it here.

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The story is: he's at a rave, someone said some snark, he took a punch to the face, he retaliated and then proceeded to absolutely shred the floor... ^^;;
I like this character, so I'll probably draw him again.